the “Establishment Phase”

This week, we are diving into a crucial yet often overlooked phase of our daily interactions: the “Establishment Phase”. This phase is all about setting the tone for positive relationships, and it happens every day. Whether it’s through your body language, your smile, or showing genuine interest in what the children have been up to, your positive energy and enthusiasm can make a world of difference.

Picture this: you’re in a classroom, and children are entering one by one. As each child walks in, you greet them with a big smile, a cheerful “Good morning!” and maybe even a high-five, depending on their preference. This small gesture can set a positive tone for the day, making each child feel special and acknowledged. Your genuine smile can light up the room and make them feel welcomed and valued, even on days when they might be feeling a bit down.

Body language is another powerful tool. Children are incredibly perceptive and pick up on non-verbal cues. When you use open and warm body language, it shows them that you are engaged and approachable. Take the time to come down to the child’s level and maintain eye contact. This not only keeps children interested but also shows them that you are fully present.

Children thrive when they feel that adults are genuinely interested in their lives. Ask them about their day, their hobbies, and their thoughts. Listen attentively and respond with enthusiasm. This builds trust and encourages children to share more about themselves. Take a few minutes in the afternoon to check in with each child. Ask questions like, “What was the best part of your day?” or “Did you learn something new today?” This practice helps build a strong connection and shows that you care about their experiences.

Everyone knows that positive energy and enthusiasm are contagious! Your positive energy can uplift their spirits and motivate them. Be enthusiastic about the activities and encourage participation. Celebrate their successes, no matter how small, and offer support when they face challenges. During group activity time, approach the task with excitement. Explain the activity with enthusiasm, participate actively, and cheer the children on as they work together. Your positive energy will make the activity more enjoyable for everyone.

Remember, every interaction with a child is an opportunity to make a positive impact. Your body language, smile, genuine interest, and positive energy can create a nurturing environment for children. By mastering the Establishment Phase, you can create a supportive and joyful environment that fosters growth and happiness.